I am so sorry for not adding to my blog since my last two very dark blog posts.
I’m actually feeling emotionally ok.
The holidays are hard for me every year. Add to that, the one year anniversary of my brother’s demise by suicide and the decision I made to stop contacting my parents and step parents back home, it makes for a not fun season.
My aggravation every Thanksgiving/Christmas is: I miss my biological family get togethers; I evaluate exactly where I’m not; I beat myself up for how much money I haven’t saved; How many presents I have not purchased; How many failed romantic relationships I have; how not fit I am, blah, blah, blah….
Well, let me turn that around, if only as an exercise in thankfulness.
This year a lot went right.
My stepsister and I are again in regular contact after years of not communicating. I’m really happy about that because I really love her and missed her like crazy.
I have a wonderful family around me right here. My children, of course. God, I am so proud of them, I cry positive tears.
My ex-mother and father in law, and my ex-husband have never excluded me from their family. And, I see my youngest daughter daily! So, what have I got to complain about?
Thanks to them, I have the opportunity this year to follow my new career goal of working with dogs. I want to learn how to groom them. Last year I was fortunate enough to be a bather in a local salon and learned a little about how to handle the canine clients. It was wonderful and this area is pretty busy.
My longtime friends are great to me, even at a distance.
I haven’t had a drunken blackout all year. That’s an accomplishment in itself.
I’ve regained my will to live again after spending the first half of 2014 in an emotional fog. I didn’t care about anything. I gave up a long-time job. I spent all my 401k money (illegal drugs are expensive when you are paying for everybody). I pretty much gave away my home. I left myself vulnerable to theft and abuse. I really didn’t care.
I’m not in that place now.
So, what the hell do I have to complain about? Nada.
I’ll leave today’s blog with that.